So I have a friend that has been on a journey to success. Whilst coaching him on his course to achievement, we have come to the realization that his current girlfriend is the one that is hindering him from reaching his goals. The overall question that comes to mind is that if you aren’t planning to spend the rest of your life with your current companion, then why are you wasting your time? What is the point in being with someone if you don’t see them in your future, especially if they are stopping you from accomplishing your dreams?

We should keep the people that benefit us in our lives and the ones that don’t far away. It may sound cruel but we only have one life, it is not meant for us to waste with people that drag us down. Whenever you are in a relationship you should see a future with that person, because if you don’t its worthless and you are gaining nothing from it. Relationships are made to help us grow into the person we need to be.  It is like you are setting yourself up for failure when you let someone in your life that is not there to help you improve. We get comfortable with the normality of being in a relationship but when you know that it is aimless then that is the time to move on for the better. Find someone that pushes you to be the best you can be and you can see in your future, that is the person you should want in your life.